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HAPPY MARRIAGE IS MY THEME SONG

Happy Marriage is the theme song to my incredible  life .  Some days I play it aloud for others to enjoy. Some days I like to hum it in my heart. Either way it has the same effect. Sweet, mountain moving music, that inspires me to love strong and keep the faith. It gently wakes me in the morning, reminding me that happiness is a choice. It lulls me to sleep at night, erasing away stress with it's hypnotizing chords. Tweaked by circumstances to get the perfect pitch. Like Bass - passion and desire enhance the sound. Laughter is the treble that adds the perfect balance.   I dare not take any credit for this masterwork. The totality of God's involvement in this magnum opus is undeniable. He is the producer and holds all copyrights. He is the engineer and sets the volume as to never drown out His Voice. God doesn't need any help but He allows collaboration. My prayer and affection towards my husband, provide th...

WIFE VS WIFEY

What is a "Wifey" exactly? Where did this term even come from? I will tell you my definition, because that's the kind of chick I am. For those of you who are new to this blog let me say welcome and introduce myself. I will always give you my version of the true story and I always own my stuff. I share the good, the bad, and the ugly, with the intent of helping someone understand their ministry as a wife. I am opinionated, boisterous, and creative. Creative enough to rewrite all the rules to the game while sticking to Gods master plan. I will not be placed in a box. I am a Christian woman with very strong beliefs, principles, and a solid spiritual background. I live by a moral code and have very clear boundaries set in my life. When it comes to marriage, I am passionate beyond belief. I can't even put into words how much I enjoy the topic of LOVE. From how love affects us, or why we want love, to how to recognize real love and how to spot a fake. Star...

YES - I WOULD DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN!

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My Hubby is away on a business trip, and I miss him something terrible. I hear people say, they like it when their spouse is not home. That's a very foreign concept to me, I missed my man while he was packing to leave, ↬ he hadn't even left yet. My husband is my best friend. He knows every secret I have. He knows my fears and flaws. He is returning tomorrow, and it's been a whole week since I've seen him. Of course, we talked every night before bed and he sent me text messages every day to say that he missed me too, which made me miss him even more [SIGH]. Today is the day he returns. This is the longest time we've ever been apart in 22yrs (we dated 2yrs before marrying) of us being together. I didn't realize I would be such a wreck. I should have though* I've been saying for years, "Like Folgers in my cup >< His love is good to the last drop!" And if you know anything about me and coffee - I absolutely/positively, must have my daily fill. ...

STILL IN LOVE AFTER ALL THIS TIME

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Greetings Happily Married Blogger Friends! I've missed you so much! Its been a very long time since I've written to you. Life has been extremely busy for me, since we last talked. I have a new job, my oldest son went away to college, and my youngest son is headed to high school. You'll be happy to know that with all this going on, I am still making time for love in my life. In fact, my marriage is priority #1. No matter whats on the agenda, my husband comes first. I am blessed to report that we are still in love after all this time. I would even go as far as to say that I feel closer to my husband now, than I ever have before. Marriage is really becoming "FUN" for us. We are laughing so much these days. Our wedding anniversary is fast approaching. Counting the years we dated before we tied the knot, we've been together a total of 21 years and through many ups and downs.... I STILL LOVE HIM! I'm getting emotional as I write these words because I prayed fo...

MARRIAGE IS THE GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING...

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Merry Christmas blogger family! Hope you have been in fa la LOVE all season long. The stress and strain of this busy time of year should not disturb the peace of your home, because we have learned how to keep Happily Married Vibes flowing no matter what else is going on. This blog has provided extremely useful secrets that have brought marriages back together. Wives have been given the tools we need to get through hard times and to get to long lasting, loving lifestyles. What a joy it is to be a spouse. What a blessing it is to have love. What do the lonely do at Christmas? WE DON'T KNOW 'CAUSE WE ARE NOT LONELY! HAPPILY MARRIED FOLK SHARE LOVE ALL YEAR LONG, JUST AS WE DO AT CHRISTMAS! MARRIAGE IS THE GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING! As your single friends crawl into their winter beds, dates from hell dancing in their heads, they will pray to find mates that complete them and make life more enjoyable. As we couples climb into our beds (that better not be cold-with all the Happily...

BE THANKFUL FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND ALL THE HAPPILY MARRIED BENEFITS...

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Don't you just love fall? The leaves on the trees are changing color. The weather is perfect this time of year! November welcomes the beginning of the holiday season! The time of year when mankind seems to be happier, more giving, and in very festive moods. Thanksgiving has always been a special time of reflection in my house. A time of year where family comes together from many different places. We create a feast that could feed an army. We play games, dance, and reminisce about the good old days! Holidays are celebrated many different ways depending on your religion and background. Love, however, is universal and can be celebrated by all. No matter your age, religion, ethnicity, or social class, when you experience real love, it changes your life for the better and that is definitely a reason to be thankful! Thankfulness is the message I want to convey to you today through this blog. Be thankful for your marriage and all the happily married benefits it brings your way. If you thi...

WHAT'S SO SPECIAL ABOUT BEING MARRIED?

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Hello Happily Married Blogger Family! Welcome back, I hope this post finds you feeling WONDERFUL, IN LOVE WITH YOUR SPOUSE, AND IN GOOD HEALTH! If you are reading regularly and applying all we have learned to your relationship, then I am positive that ALL IS WELL ON THE HOME FRONT! You've been communicating better, making more time for SEX, respectful towards one another, and growing more in love with each passing day! Now that we have gotten all the salutations and pleasantries out of the way, let's get down to the real reason why we are all here, shall we? Folks hear us talking all this "I'm so in love" & "I love being married" stuff all the time and with eyes rolling before you can finish your next happily married statement, they are asking..."What's so special about being married anyway?" What is your reply? Are you ready with an answer? I WILL BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO SHARE MY PHILOSOPHY ON THE SUBJECT MATTER ('cause...That...