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WHAT'S SO SPECIAL ABOUT BEING MARRIED?

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Hello Happily Married Blogger Family! Welcome back, I hope this post finds you feeling WONDERFUL, IN LOVE WITH YOUR SPOUSE, AND IN GOOD HEALTH! If you are reading regularly and applying all we have learned to your relationship, then I am positive that ALL IS WELL ON THE HOME FRONT! You've been communicating better, making more time for SEX, respectful towards one another, and growing more in love with each passing day! Now that we have gotten all the salutations and pleasantries out of the way, let's get down to the real reason why we are all here, shall we? Folks hear us talking all this "I'm so in love" & "I love being married" stuff all the time and with eyes rolling before you can finish your next happily married statement, they are asking..."What's so special about being married anyway?" What is your reply? Are you ready with an answer? I WILL BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO SHARE MY PHILOSOPHY ON THE SUBJECT MATTER ('cause...That...

BE SWEET AS HONEY EVEN WHEN YOU ARE RUNNING LOW ON MONEY!

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The number one cause for divorce in America is (DRUM ROLL PLEASE) MONEY ISSUES. I am sure that this comes to no surprise to you. We all tend to get a little tense when our finances aren't right! Lets just lay it all out on the table in a very honest way. Bad things do happen to good people. You can be a successful person with many things to show for your hard work when all of a sudden, something happens to cause you to have a financial hardship! Loss of employment or an illness could be the culprit. Other times its irresponsibility or mismanagement of funds. Whatever the case, let's hypothetically see ourselves in this predicament. Stress, bills, plus bill collectors.... all to much to handle but, add the nervous energy of a fearful spouse into the mix and you have yourself a recipe for a not so happy marriage! What I want to convey to you today is that your love has to be deeper than material possessions and lack of funds . You didn't marry for money (or did you?) You are ...

PRESERVE THE SEXY!

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Alright blog friends, we are all adults and therefore, mature enough to understand that to have a happy marriage you must have a fulfilling sex life. Why should anyone have to be advised about how to conduct themselves behind closed doors with their spouse? You would think that anyone getting married would already understand how important a healthy sex life is in a relationship but, out of the top three reasons listed for divorce, SEX is number two (right after money issues) . Its o.k. to admit that you can use some help in that area. You weren't given a how-to manual with your marriage license and with all the day to day strain and stress, it's easy to get out of a sexy mentality. My objective is to point out the problem areas and suggest some solutions. If you are serious about having the best marriage possible, you will have to evaluate your sex life on a regular basis. The most important thing I want the wives to realize is this.... MEN NEED SEX ! NEED (A condition or sit...