THE GRASS ISN'T GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE!

Tell yourself all day-everyday that you are married to your soul mate. You should really feel that way and the more you say it, you should be even more convinced that this is true! You made a choice, and your choice was literally CREATED JUST FOR YOU! Your spouse should complete you! This is not crazy talk this is HAPPILY MARRIED TALK! Who cares if you are the only one among your peers who dares to express how much love you have for your mate? You go home to SUNSHINE every day and if they had a wife or husband half as caring as yours, they would be telling the world about it too! Be comfortable with how you love and don't be ashamed of the degree that you love! Marriage is sacred and it takes some spiritual thinking to stay committed!

There will always be somebody prettier than your wife, but they can never be what she is to you! Beauty is only skin deep. Your wife prays for you while you sleep! She knows (and understands) how you think and loves you when you are unlovable! The wife you chose, respects your decisions even when she doesn't fully understand your reasoning! When you had little to no money, your wife stood by you! The grass is not greener on the other side! ITS JUST GRASS OVER THERE! If you want prettier grass.... tend to it! Water your own grass (give your wife the love she needs to flourish under your care). Keep your lawn groomed (take her shopping regularly and make sure she feels AND LOOKS BEAUTIFUL)! Keep folks from walking on your grass (it's your job to protect her from criticism and hurtful words from others). No one has a greater wife than you (this should be the mind set of every husband walking on this planet earth)!

I probably should not admit this but, I love watching that television show CHEATERS! The one thing we can all learn from that show is, what's done in the dark will eventually come to the light. Every cheater gets caught one day. The thing that burns me up about a situationship is this.... IF THE OTHER WOMAN HAD FOUR BOOBIES OR TWO VAGINAS' MAYBE THEN AND ONLY THEN, COULD YOU JUSTIFY IT! Cheating is usually always about sex and the hussies that the men cheat with have THE EXACT SAME BODY PARTS THE WIFE HAS AT HOME!!! HELLO-IS ANYONE HEARING ME OUT THERE? GIVE THAT SAME ATTENTION TO THE ONE YOU VOWED TO BE FAITHFUL TO AND SEE IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISN'T MORE FULFILLING THAN ANY DIRTY AFFAIR COULD EVER BE! SORRY TO GO OFF LIKE THAT - DIDN'T EXPECT TO GO THAT WAY BUT IT MUST HAVE BEEN NEEDED!! O.K. ~ WHERE WAS I?

Ladies, there will always be some dude out there with bigger muscles than your husband! Some sugar daddy waving a heavier wallet than your husband has. More money doesn't give you peace of mind! Muscles can't promise you a lifetime of happiness! The husband you pledged to love for better or for worse, is the man who has loved you no matter what size you are (or grow to be - you know we tend to fluctuate - SMILE)! Your husband is the man who would move heaven and earth to make you happy! Your husband watches you sleep and thanks God for the precious gift of your love! Your man thinks you are the most beautiful woman in the world! Do you think muscle man will love you unconditionally - flaws and all? Do you really think sugar daddy will be faithful to only you? Are you willing to take that risk and gamble your whole life on it?

The grass is not greener on the other side, it is only grass over there! Grass that you will have to water, cut, and tend to! The grass on the other side got to look so good by someone taking the necessary time, love, and care it takes for anything to grow healthy! Mess up your good thing and get another one that you thought was better.... YOU'LL BE SORRY! SOMEONE ELSE WILL ENJOY THE BLESSING OF A MAN YOU NEGLECTED TO VALUE AND YOU WILL BE STUCK WITH MUSCLES BUT NO CONNECTION! YOU WILL HAVE MONEY BUT NO JOY AND PEACE!

PLEASE SAY IT WITH ME NOW AND EVERYDAY OF YOUR MARRIED LIFE - THE GRASS IS NOT GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE! From where I stand.... My grass looks pretty damn good! My grass looks better than ALL THE REST! My spouse is just that ~ MINE! MY SPOUSE IS BONE OF MY BONE AND FLESH OF MY FLESH! MY SPOUSE IS PERFECT FOR ME.... O.K.? O.K.!!