WIFE VS WIFEY

What is a "Wifey" exactly?

Where did this term even come from?

I will tell you my definition, because that's the kind of chick I am. For those of you who are new to this blog let me say welcome and introduce myself. I will always give you my version of the true story and I always own my stuff. I share the good, the bad, and the ugly, with the intent of helping someone understand their ministry as a wife. I am opinionated, boisterous, and creative. Creative enough to rewrite all the rules to the game while sticking to Gods master plan. I will not be placed in a box. I am a Christian woman with very strong beliefs, principles, and a solid spiritual background. I live by a moral code and have very clear boundaries set in my life. When it comes to marriage, I am passionate beyond belief. I can't even put into words how much I enjoy the topic of LOVE. From how love affects us, or why we want love, to how to recognize real love and how to spot a fake. Start any conversation about love and I am all in. I am just wired this way. Now, enough about me, let's get back to defining the term "Wifey."

I first heard the term "Wifey" on television and when the person said it, they enunciated the word with a playfulness that was undeniable. It stuck in my head because it sounded informal and livelier than the term "Wife." I pride myself on being perky and exuberant. I teach my marriage mentees to always be a pleasure to be around as the wife and to always be your husbands' girlfriend. Never stop dating him. To make marriage fun and to live happy you can't take yourself so seriously. For me the term "Wifey" reminds me of all those things. I am very aware that being a wife is a ministry and marriage is not to be entered into lightly but, I can perform all duties with a lighthearted, humorous, sexy, flamboyance. I have been married for over 20 years and I plan to be happily married 100 more if God tarries. Trust me when I tell you, sometimes I need an alter ego to get me through these happily married days and hot/steamy matrimonial nights. "Wifey" is the grown and sexy, sassy, laid-back version of the beautiful, serious, girl he married. ME 2.0! Me without worrying about the children, or bills, or work. Me uninhibited. Down for whatever my husband request. His ride or die (As the young say)!

The Urban Dictionary defines "Wifey" as "A Real Lady, not your only but your favorite. Sexy in every way possible, when she smiles it's sexy, even when she is mad at you it's sexy." Well, you know I would have to say that I strongly oppose and take issue with the first half of this definition when referring to a married lady. We are THE ONE AND THE ONLY! I have defined what "Wifey" means to my husband, myself, and our marriage mentees. Now the "Sexy in every possible way," The Urban Dictionary hit the nail on the head. I'LL TAKE THAT! HEHEHE - I'LL BUY IT, OWN IT, CARRY IT AROUND, SHARE IT WITH OTHERS, AND KEEP IT FOR YEARS TO COME! I AM WIFEY, ALWAYS SEXY AND SASSY. I AM HIS WIFEY, ALWAYS SMILING AND MAKING HIS LIFE ENJOYABLE. I AM THE PROBLEM FIXER AND HIS MIND REGULATOR. I AM HIS MUSE. I AM HIS SUNSHINE AND HIS WORRY-FREE ZONE. I AM ALL THAT HE WANTS AND ALL THAT HE NEEDS. HIS PRAYER PARTNER AND SPIRITUAL SIDEKICK. WIFE VS WIFEY.... IT'S ALL ONE IN THE SAME. CALL IT WHAT YOU WANT BUT DON'T EVER UNDERESTIMATE MY PRESENCE AND PURPOSE. ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE - I AM HIS GLORY!

IT'S THE MEANING BEHIND THE TITLE THAT'S MAJOR. ITS THE ACTION BEHIND THE NAME THAT IS MOST IMPORTANT. THE ACTION IS WHAT WILL KEEP YOU LIVING HAPPILY EVER AFTER. DEFINE AND DEFEND YOUR TITLE AS HIS "HELP MEET" IN YOUR OWN MARRIAGE AND YOUR HUSBAND WILL CALL YOU ALL KINDS OF NAMES BEFORE IT'S OVER. HONEY, LOVE, QUEEN, MY RIB, MY MRS., MY GIRL, LOVER, (((SIGH))) EVEN SOME NAUGHTY NAMES I DARE NOT MENTION! (((SMILE)))

I pray that you are able to tap into your inner sexy on a daily basis. I pray that you become the best wife your husband could ever ask for. I encourage you to live and love as openly and honestly as you possibly can. Have fun in your marriage. Loosen up and let your hair down. Getting married is done.... Staying married is your new assignment. O.K.? O.K.!


Real love is possible.... BELIEVE!
 

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